nice guys finish last. (1 Viewer)

[jellybeenz]

I don't really know if this is relevent. But I don't think nice guys finish last. I think girls just like guys who are nice to them when they don't have to be.

E.g. Guy is friends with a girl who hates my guts-- Guy says hello to me and talks to me about school every now and then. I love him because of it. He must have heard so many horrible things about me yet he is still nice to me even though he doesn't have to be.

Its nice to be singled out, I think girls will always like someone who pays attention yet not too much attention. Casual interest can be very sexy. So those guys who are nice to everyone, its hard to know if they actually consider you a friend or are just being "nice" to you as they are to everyone else. Does that make sense?

 

[azzie]

i havnt yet found the "nice guy" steriotype......
as soon as i do, im going to go out with him

but most guys are tools!! (sorry, i had to)

 

[KeypadSDM]

But I just wouldn't go out with them cos it'll fuck things up, believe me... I learnt my lesson, better to keep em as good friends then fuck things up by adding a relationship to the mix

Are you serious? You're the bloody reason this thread exists. Did you even read the article?

 

[KeypadSDM]

Ok I'll rephrase:

She actually does want that but has poor people judgement and ends up going for the jerks anyway.

Or else she's a rareity.

I'm thinking the former. Most girls think they're going out with the nicest guy in the world when they're dating them. In hindsight they see they dated an asshole, and vow never to do it again. 3 days later she's sleeping on the floor because her newest "nice guy" needs the whole bed to himself.

Indicative of all women. (Well just as much as "Horny arrogant dickheads" is indicative of all men).

 

[KeypadSDM]

lol....im sure shes blissfully unaware

Hence my next post

 

[babydoll_]

/me shrugs

OK so what AM I trying to say?

The nice guys are appreciated, but there IS a reason girls don't hook up with them.

 

[KeypadSDM]

/me shrugs

OK so what AM I trying to say?

The nice guys are appreciated, but there IS a reason girls don't hook up with them.

No.

There is a reason HOT GIRLS don't hook up with them. And that's because nice guys (9 times out of 10) are butt ugly. Done and done. I know I'm not Brad Pitt, so I don't even bother trying to get into their good books, they're just going to use me as an emotional outlet. I'm usually upfront about being attracted, and if they don't want me, then I make it quite clear that I don't just want to be friends, so we maintain an aquantance, not a friendship.

There, simple, it works. Stop being stupid you "Nice Guys".

 

[OZGIRL86]

Ok I'll rephrase:

She actually does want that but has poor people judgement and ends up going for the jerks anyway.

Or else she's a rareity.

No I don't have poor judgement,and my judgement isn't perfect, but in most cases its ok.

 

[toisthbe]

nice guys dont get the girl because:
they're pussies,
they're stupid.

 

[OZGIRL86]

so why arnt you with a nice guy?

People dont look for nice people. They look for hot people and then they see if they are nice

how do you know if i am with one or not with one?

we can't tell if someone is a nice person based on their appearance, when you get to know someone you find out what type of person they are.

 

[Cyph]

I call bullshit on the nice guy's finish last thing.

 

[Shuter]

how do you know if i am with one or not with one?

we can't tell if someone is a nice person based on their appearance, when you get to know someone you find out what type of person they are.

I bet you I could tell you with a 90% accuracy rate if a guy is good/not good boyfriend material within 5 minutes of meeting him.

80% accuracy within 2 minutes.

65% accuracy just by looking at them.

 

[Not-That-Bright]

I agree, it's pretty easy to pick out total assholes.

 

[tammer]

so what kind of appearance details indicate that a guy is an asshole?

 

[Not-That-Bright]

well from appearance i'd usually start with a guy wearing the kind of jeans that cost $400 but are ripped for some unknown reason.

 

[joujou_84]

I agree, it's pretty easy to pick out total assholes.

sometimes theyre in disguise :uhhuh:

 

[joujou_84]

well from appearance i'd usually start with a guy wearing the kind of jeans that cost $400 but are ripped for some unknown reason.

my brother bought a pair of jeans for $390 and they were already ripped......does this place him in the "asshole" category

 

[Yarg]

no, i think thats called the 'retard' category.

 

[tammer]

sometimes theyre in disguise :uhhuh:

this is so true. you can even think you know a guy and not know he is an asshole! you can't tell me you can look at him and tell. some you can but not all

 

[Cyph]

haha, it's kind of funny.

A guy is either: a pussy (you don't respect him), or an asshole (you want to beat his ass).

edit: btw, I can't believe you're back either tammer!