are you sure its not a compliment?Iago said:when i say "you're a nice guy" i really mean "i want to rip your balls off and feed them to my three pet iguanas." i don't tend to use it as a compliment.
Not irrational from the girls point of view, I am wondering why the guys don't just tell the girl to get stuffed, why keep wanting them while they send themself to more doomed relationships, that is the irrational part.Lainee said:Actually, it's probably not as irrational as you think.
... sometimes i wonder if its that 1/4 turk in you that kicks in and makes you an asshole sometimesHenry_Kissinger said:you're jehovah's witness?
so you sleep with school children right?
Nice guys are too nice to say something like that.iambored said:Not irrational from the girls point of view, I am wondering why the guys don't just tell the girl to get stuffed, why keep wanting them while they send themself to more doomed relationships, that is the irrational part.
i dun think you can generalise like that. we all want to be selfish and have a doormat to wipe our dirt on. it's just that nice guys put themselves in the doormat position from the start.Casmira said:Girls will be forever selfish and want that dual relationship of a guy treating her like shit which she loves, and the doormat she can wipe her dirt on.
I just hope too find that special girl out there that isn't like that.
There is no 'really nice way' to reject someone.Riviet said:Nice guys tend to not reject girls, or if they do, they do it in a really nice way of course.
dittoCasmira said:I think girls saying a nice guy can't be "heorione" and be really romantic is just an excuse for their selfishness. Any time could nice guys go too a party and just sleaze talk get laid 50 times then find a nice girl, but no we're all nice enough too hold that. Nice guys can still have confidence, I have a bit of confidence somewhere in me but that is never enough. Girls will be forever selfish and want that dual relationship of a guy treating her like shit which she loves, and the doormat she can wipe her dirt on.
I just hope too find that special girl out there that isn't like that.
no they're notDreamerish*~ said:Nice guys are too nice to say something like that.
that be true, look how many drunk nice guys get laidCasmira said:I think girls saying a nice guy can't be "heorione" and be really romantic is just an excuse for their selfishness. Any time could nice guys go too a party and just sleaze talk get laid 50 times then find a nice girl, but no we're all nice enough too hold that. Nice guys can still have confidence, I have a bit of confidence somewhere in me but that is never enough. Girls will be forever selfish and want that dual relationship of a guy treating her like shit which she loves, and the doormat she can wipe her dirt on.
I just hope too find that special girl out there that isn't like that.
doesn't it make more sense to not have any 'dirt' from relationships (because you're with the nice guy), and wipe/share the rest of the 'dirt' (your problems) onto the nice boy bf, it makes more sense to meFrigid said:i dun think you can generalise like that. we all want to be selfish and have a doormat to wipe our dirt on. it's just that nice guys put themselves in the doormat position from the start.
yesiambored said:doesn't it make more sense to not have any 'dirt' from relationships (because you're with the nice guy), and wipe/share the rest of the 'dirt' (your problems) onto the nice boy bf, it makes more sense to me
i have to go back and find the people you've called nice on BOS :/OZGIRL86 said:Calling someone a "nice guy" can means different things to different people.
When I call a guy a nice guy its because he is nice, or I like him, simple as that.
It dosn't mean that I'm not interested in him, or his boring or not the bf type. It usually means that I am interested in him.
I see as nice guy as being someone who is likeable. For eg- If I talk to someone about a guy I like or im interested in, or want to get to know better I might sometimes say- "oh (name) seems like a really nice guy".
To me "nice" dosn't mean boring, or a way of describing someone that I'm not interested in.
Some people read into it too much.
braad said:i have to go back and find the people you've called nice on BOS :/
then we have our next bos couple!
muahahahaha...OZGIRL and someone :\
lucky bastard
Yeah there is, hook them up with a hot Sweedish man.Lainee said:There is no 'really nice way' to reject someone.
lol, yes dear, i understood :/OZGIRL86 said:hahah braad, you know what I mean. I know what I mean, maybe it just didn't come out right. I was talking about in real life
thats....the wrong sexKeypadSDM said:Yeah there is, hook them up with a hot Sweedish man.