Maybe. I think though, if you're someone who for whatever reason thinks that your having slept with X amount of people is a 'bad trait', your desire not to tell / to keep the status quo of not telling is just as insecure as someone who wants to find out how many people you've slept with because they would find X amount a bad trait. I.e. If both people hold that moral stance (say that sleeping with lots of people makes you less valuable) then it's fair enough that the person has asked.It's true, the issue is probably more why they're asking than why you are hesitant to tell.
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