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iamsickofyear12

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If she is hot then it's great. If she is hotter than the ex that's even better.
 

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revenge is sweet..But don't go out with her just for that.. if your still mates with your ex it'd most likely send her fuming even if she says it's ok. Its dogged if the friend does aswell, its kind of a rule. Depends how long you went out with your ex and how long ago it was.
 

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I don't rate it, although it depends how close they are.

Keep in mind - you are fucking up a friendship.

There are tonnes of other girls elsewhere.
 

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it also depends on how you know her... like if you are all in the same group of friends that's probably ok... but if your ex introduced u while u were dating or something... that's probably not cool
 

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repz said:
What's your personal views on going out with an ex girlfriends friend?
omg...that'd make me gay

so i think no
 

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repz said:
What's your personal views on going out with an ex girlfriends friend?
Who cares whose friend she is, everyone's free game.
 

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depends how long ago you and your ex broke and and why you broke up and whether your still friends with her or not..it can hurt to see that,im talking from experience though..but its the sort of thing girls like to be able to get over a guy quicker so it may be a good thing..again depending on the reasons i mentioned before :) goodluck with your verdict
 

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HeCtic said:
Stop worrying about what other people think. If you want to, just do it.
yea i agree~
da more u ask ...da more confused u goin to get anywayz...
since there will b pplz who give u both sides...
 

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Your ex doesn't really have a valid reason for preventing you from getting with her friend. So just do it.
 

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yeah fuck it, this isnt the 1950s and there are less rules as such for dating. is she single? then go for it. your ex is long gone, she no longer has any say or control of what you do in your life. even if she doesnt want you to, just do what you want to do, dont consider her at all.

only problem is it might ruin the friend and your ex's relationship, but if that happens just remember it was the ex's decission to ruin her friendship and she shouldnt feel like she can control who you can date just because once you were an item.

so dont consern yourself at all about your potential girl being friends with your ex, just do it
 

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miaomiao said:
I think its mean. As in unkind.
It would be if that was the only reason he has for going out with her.

However, if they developed feelings for each other, the ex girlfriend has no right to stop them from taking it further.
 

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yeah just go for it. If there is something there between the two of you, why not?
 

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i guess its ok, but my ex is going out with one of my friends and it sucks... i still wanted to be friends with him when we broke up cos hes a great guy but i cant cos shes going out with me. i think she sees me as a major threat cos he really liked me when we went out and we didnt end badly.
and i recently found out that shes a lying bitch... which doesnt help...
so i dont know what shes telling him... probably that i still want him and i want to steal him from her. and my other friend hears entirely different stories from her, shes just lying to everyone and it really sucks cos i thought she was a nice chick...
fuck!
 

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