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white ferret

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I broke up with my bf over a month ago, but is it too soon to go into another relationship? I've heard something about a 48 day mourning period, which I havent quite reached. I'm 95% over my ex, but I dont want this new guy to become a rebound?
 

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There's no rules set in stone for this sort of thing. If it feels right for you, go for it.
 

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Sounds like someone dates because the magazine said so.

wtf is a "mourning period"? Who said one needs a mourning period?
 
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-_- there is no "set" time
and wait till ur 100% ova him, so u know for shure this new guy wont b a rebound
 

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how do you get a mourning period after a relationship? you mourn if someone DIES..fuck some people are stupid!!
 

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sanjeevprasad99 said:
and wait till ur 100% ova him, so u know for shure this new guy wont b a rebound
You know, 'ova' is probably not the best substitute for 'over' in the L&R forum, considering what its actual meaning is.


Anyway, if you're feeling okay enough about it to want a relationship for the sake of the relationship, not just to spite the old one, then go for it.
 

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alby said:
how do you get a mourning period after a relationship? you mourn if someone DIES..fuck some people are stupid!!
The steps of mourning occur in many situations eg losing a job, divorce, even breaking up from your bf/gf. Not just death.
 

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Lol, 48 day mourning period.

It's something like a chain letter. bullcrap.

Dunno how you feel about that, but if you feel you're ready for another relationship, go for it.
 

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CieL said:
Sounds like someone dates because the magazine said so.

wtf is a "mourning period"? Who said one needs a mourning period?
velox said:
lolololozz you're from sydney girls. did you go out with a sydney boys?
i dunno, a mourning period sounded like a good idea. i think it was mentioned on some chick flick.

why does everyone assume that? but maybe they have good reason to. answer's yes.
 
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Kwayera said:
You know, 'ova' is probably not the best substitute for 'over' in the L&R forum, considering what its actual meaning is.


Anyway, if you're feeling okay enough about it to want a relationship for the sake of the relationship, not just to spite the old one, then go for it.
lmao hahahahah, oh yeah, ur right, i just googled "ova" 0_0, ops, my bad
i'd like to change that to "over":) lol
 

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munchybuddy said:
if u really like tis new guy and u r goin out wid him for the right reasons (ie- not to make ur ex jealous) then go for it!!
that sentence just made my eyes bleed. Learn to type like an intelligent human being or gtfo.
 

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sanjeevprasad99 said:
lmao hahahahah, oh yeah, ur right, i just googled "ova" 0_0, ops, my bad
i'd like to change that to "over":) lol
The moral of this story is: enunciate correctly! Just because you're typing doesn't mean you have the right to be lazy! :p
 

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Mourning period. Still makes me laugh.

Hahaha.
 

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Sooj said:
Mourning period. Still makes me laugh.

Hahaha.
ditto, seriously just have your cry and accept what happened - you're not married or something. dont let anyone drag you down, get back up and into the dating game again. :)

Mourning period is for dead people, not for dead relationships....
 

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