agreed
I was at a nightclub a few weeks back just watching how everyone interacted with one another (i wasn't drinking so i had nothing better to do). The only guys who were 'picking up' were 'pink-polo, collar-up' types that were all downing their smirnoff blacks and exposing themselves to the women as jokes. The nerds in the corner were not spoken to the whole night. The 'average boys' (just a general stereotype) about were chatting to the occasional girl, but were usually passed off for "the friends zone" etc (despite their best efforts). So after reading that, who was the most successful? ... the boys who acted immature. Sorry but its true.