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cuz they are female equivalents of dat ^Pace_T said:you're wrong you stupid girls, its that fat stuttering four-eyes in your class whos too shy to talk to anyone!
cuz they are female equivalents of dat ^Pace_T said:you're wrong you stupid girls, its that fat stuttering four-eyes in your class whos too shy to talk to anyone!
Serius said:cut her off abruptly. If you like her its not a real friendship anyway, its built on a lie. She wont ever give you what you want so you will just be hurting and frustrating yourself and also hurting her when she feels you expect emotions from her she just doesn't have.
The attracted thing usually comes up at some stage by one of the two [usually the guy] but girls can just deal with it a whole lot easier. If you honestly care about your friendship, then try and focus your attention on someone else, at least until you feeling for her fade and you can proceed with a normal friendship.
Kudos on dealing with it maturely and telling her how you feel, but a better way would have been to sit down and explain your feelings and actually talk it out and work out a happy situation.
i had a similar situation with an x. dating your friends ends ugly and you neva see them afterwards. i think when she means she doesn't want to hurt the friendship, its her nice way of lettin you down. don't go there againRPG said:As the title suggests I need a female perspective on the situation I am in.
I really like this girl and she is a close friend. We have a fun time together and have some similar interests. I have already asked her out and she thought about it for a couple of days and she said that she doesnt want to ruin our current friendship. I understand her concern however I really do care for her.
I repect her and do not want to rush things even if do get into a relationship with her. Its just that when I am around her time seems to really fly by and some of the feelings are hard to describe in words.
Now I do want to repect her decision however I do want to be in a realationship with her eventually but I dont know how to go about showing her that I am serious without disrepecting her decision. I know it might take a few months but I am will to put the time in.
Now my question to the ladies of the board is what it is the best way to approach this situation. Do I leave it for a few months and continue our current friendship or should I just respect her decision and not bring it up again?
Sort of...Roguedeth said:friend zone is like a blackhole once you're in friend zone you are nothing else than a friend.
guys dont have a "friends zone". if they reject their female friend its cause shes not good looking enough, not because he wants to protect a friendship.evche said:Exact same situation, except swap the sexes and add 3 years. still nada.
im sorry i couldnt be of more help!
That asshat.Pace_T said:guys dont have a "friends zone". if they reject their female friend its cause shes not good looking enough, not because he wants to protect a friendship.
darkwolfzx said:Go find someone else. Keep feeding her attention and she will take you for granted
Wisdom, pure wisdom.i-love-maynard said:You need to make her jealous. Thrash some hot chick and make sure she finds out about it. That will put into perspective that she had you and then she lost you, and that drives girls crazy.