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Age Difference (1 Viewer)

Do you have a preference of how much older/younger someone is that you go out with?

  • Yes; they have to be the SAME age!

    Votes: 48 2.8%
  • No; I don;t mind!

    Votes: 655 38.3%
  • Yes; no more than a year younger/older than me!

    Votes: 594 34.8%
  • I like older/younger men/women!

    Votes: 411 24.1%

  • Total voters
    1,708

Miss Code

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yeah i know nothing to do with age he was just a dickhead.


luxxey ur right but i dont personally think its right because at say 18 yeah you can go out to clubs legally drink, legally have sex where someone 11/12 they legally can do nothing. and really they dont know what their actions will have on the rest of their life really all their thinking of is what their gonna have for dinner.
its not to be a bitch or judgemental, its just they dont know what self actualisation is, they shouldnt be going out with someone like 7 years older then some at that age.
yeah if they were say 17 and the guy was 20 odd sure it wouldnt look so bad but i personally think its wrong.
 

IndustrialBar

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Exceptions are, of course, those who are more emotionally mature than others their age.
Ah, and here we find the crux of the argument. Who is to decide the maturity of someone under 16? They may decide that they are mature enough to decide, but the government says they are not.
Of course, the government is greedy and self-serving, so meh.

On another note; 16 is the age of consent, so they can screw 40 year olds if they're into that, once they turn that age.
 

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pursuing a guy a year younger than me
is also my manager at work

a younger but superior person

toyboy fun indeed.
 

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I really don't mind the age difference.
Something you would have with that person doesn't have to be too serious.
If you are together and you ever feel pressured by him, end it as soon as possible.
Me personally, I have a boyfriend who's 27 and I just turned 19 and the r/ship is perfect.

Depends on each case and individuals, but age shouldn't be an obstacle for a r/ship. :)
 

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Um he is way too old for you. Is your HSC really 09? Lol 27, he should be with someone who is at least 20.5yrs old, not 19, dont fuck with the rules
 
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I can't even look at like year 12 boys now... at least when they're in uniform cause its like "wow. thats a school kid." even though most of them are my age.. just feels way weird.
 

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I dont think age matters when its only a couple of years... over 10 years difference is just weird... thats my opinion anyway!

I also thinks its gross to date ppl younger than u (if ur a girl) !!!!
 

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I dont think age matters when its only a couple of years... over 10 years difference is just weird... thats my opinion anyway!

I also thinks its gross to date ppl younger than u (if ur a girl) !!!!
Just wondering, are you from a subcontinental background? Cause thats the general feeling amongst mainly muslims from South Asia, that girls can't date guys younger than them, but it's okay the other way around :santa:
 

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Just wondering, are you from a subcontinental background? Cause thats the general feeling amongst mainly muslims from South Asia, that girls can't date guys younger than them, but it's okay the other way around :santa:
HELL NO....firstly im not muslim and secondly im not from south asia... I was born and breed here! wbu?
 

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I dont think age matters when its only a couple of years... over 10 years difference is just weird... thats my opinion anyway!

I also thinks its gross to date ppl younger than u (if ur a girl) !!!!
at your age maybe.
 

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well i tend to like guys older like atm i'm 17 and i like this guys who's 20
i've only ever dated someone younger once by one year and still i found that the
maturity levels never quite evened themselves out.
 

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NEVAR STOPPDE YOU DID IT?!HAHAHHAHA
HILARIOUS!
Even more funny he didnt get it.

About the question:
Im 16 (17 in about a month) my boyfriend sis turning 20 in about 3 months.
I know the gap isnt as much but we are starting to have diffrent goals and everything.

Its hard to deal with sometimes but everything works out in the end.
If you really like someone you should be willing to make it work out.

(Me and my Boyfriend have been together for almost 4 years)

:)
 

yuri_gagarin

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see thats retarded, what would a 16yr old boy want with a 13yr old girl lol cant he get any 16, 15 or 14 yr old girls?

im 20 in 10 months and theres no way id want to be going out with some 16 or 17 year old lol whats shit, id be out having fun at pubs and shit and she'd be in school still. and school girls are immature retards.
 

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HILARIOUS!
Even more funny he didnt get it.

About the question:
Im 16 (17 in about a month) my boyfriend sis turning 20 in about 3 months.
I know the gap isnt as much but we are starting to have diffrent goals and everything.

Its hard to deal with sometimes but everything works out in the end.
If you really like someone you should be willing to make it work out.

(Me and my Boyfriend have been together for almost 4 years)

:)

ew



when this is my boyfriend

age difference won't matter
 

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There is a simple rule for age difference which I live my life by which is;

For the youngest girl a guy can date, (age of girl)/2 + 7.

Works out every time unless you're under 14.
 

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How much does age matter?

Right now I am sort of with this guy, but he is 27 and I am 18(well in 2days)
How older than yourselves would you date a person?
How'd that work out Karma Kitten?
 

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