happy alone? legit excuse? FML (2 Viewers)

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yeahh it sucks, but maybe if the friendship was founded on hooking up, it will happen again further down the line?
 

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It's not impossible for him to change his mind, imo. Continue, see what happens, otherwise you'll tear yourself apart wondering what might have happened.
 

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Some people just don't want relationships.

The best thing to do would be to hang out with him as a friend, like you've been doing and accept the fact that nothing will happen.

Or, if that hurts too much, get yourself out of the whole situation.

I find that if someone doesn't want a relationship and you push for one, only badness ensues.
 

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i reckon he's keen meli

but you just need to make it the most unforced, gradual, natural transition EVA!
 

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well ive come to the conclusion that:
a) he's gay (been there)
b) he's in love with someone else (also, been there)
c) has had a bad experience (been there)
d) is completely repulsed by me. (prolly been there)

sifnt give it a go, mannnnn
 

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no honestly, i've been in this situation, and the girl has freaked out and wanted to make it official whatever and i''ve run


whereas if it had've been a relaxed natural transition it would've been great




it sounds like he's really not looking for something, but he clearly likes you. so as long as you don't stress the specifics, and just take it as fun wotevs it will develop into something more naturally.


and if it doesn't atleast you got to make out and have fun
 

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just knock santa off his sleigh and you have instant friends consisting of a dozen reindeers and they have flight capabilities too to sweeten the deal
 

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As a wise man (Chopper Reid) said:

"Harden the f*** up"
 

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