Yeah, why keep them suffering a cruel life. It would be better if the disability/terminal status can be identified before the baby is born though so abortion can be an option.
Yeah very few positions. Not the most reliable source but https://www.news.com.au/finance/work/at-work/canva-amazon-google-atlassian-and-jane-street-paying-graduates-salaries-up-to-350000/news-story/284c00dafcb26d16fa0935852cc83f0c
Most ATs are well into their late 20s as far as I've seen and there is no concept of work/life balance at least until after you are 30. That being said it's probably specialist deoendent.